On Sunday’s Philosophy in Action Radio, I answered questions on the validity of gay marriage, the is-ought gap, the aftermath of a friendship, mixing politics and romance, and more with Greg Perkins. The podcast of that episode is now available for streaming or downloading. You’ll find it on the episode’s archive page, as well as below.
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Podcast: Gay Marriage, Is-Ought Gap, Political Disagreements, and More
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Introduction (0:00)
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Question 1: The Validity of Gay Marriage (2:34)
In this segment, I answered a question on the validity of gay marriage.
Is “gay marriage” a valid form of marriage? Many people oppose gay marriage on the grounds that marriage is essentially religious, that procreation is central to marriage, or “traditional marriage” should be respected. Should gay unions be considered a valid form of marriage, legally or socially? Might civil unions be an acceptable alternative?
My Answer, In Brief: The various quasi-secular arguments against gay marriage fail, badly. Gay marriage is a matter of rights, and people ought to support it.
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- Duration: 21:25
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Links:
- Philosophy in Action: State Involvement in Marriage and Gay “Conversion” Therapy
- NoodleFood: Some Arguments Against Gay Marriage
- Republican Liberty Caucus: The Rational Solution for Gay Marriage
- Polling Data on Support for Gay Marriage Versus Civil Unions
To comment on this question or my answer, visit its comment thread.
Question 2: The Is-Ought Gap (24:01)
In this segment, I answered a question on the is-ought gap.
What is the solution to the is-ought problem? David Hume famously claimed that statements about what ought to be cannot be derived from statements about what is the case. Does that mean that ethics is impossible? Can the gap be bridged, and if so, how?
My Answer, In Brief: The is-ought problem was solved by Ayn Rand’s identification of life as a person’s ultimate goal: the facts have normative implications when combined with goals.
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- Duration: 10:44
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- Wikipedia: Naturalistic Fallacy and Is-Ought Problem
- The Objectivist Ethics (in The Virtue of Selfishness) and “Causality Versus Duty” (in Philosophy: Who Needs It) by Ayn Rand
- The Is-Ought Gap: Subjectivism’s Technical Retreat by Craig Biddle
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Question 3: The Aftermath of a Friendship (34:45)
In this segment, I answered a question on the aftermath of a friendship.
What’s the proper response to the dissolution of a friendship within a social group? I loved your your May 6th, 2012 discussion of “unforgivable acts,” and I have a follow-up question. Now – after cutting my losses with a best friend, after years of giving second chances, talking with him repeatedly, and determining that there’s no more basis for a friendship – how do I judge mutual friends of ours? Some of them think that my actions weren’t justified. Some resent me for breaking up a group of friends. Many want me to either make up with this person or tolerate him at gatherings. Is this reaction by these mutual friends fair? How should I respond to them?
My Answer, In Brief: Often, such problems have no easy solution, but you’ll be better off if you explain as much as you can of the facts and your feelings, set reasonable limits as to interaction with this former friend, and work to keep up the friendships.
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- Duration: 8:54
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- Philosophy in Action: Unforgivable Acts
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Question 4: Mixing Politics and Romance (43:39)
In this segment, I answered a question on mixing politics and romance.
Can people with divergent political views enjoy a good romantic relationship? Some of my liberal friends won’t date conservatives, and some of my conservative friends are horrified at the thought of dating a liberal. Is that reasonable? Since I’m in favor of free markets, should I only date other advocates of free markets? Can people with very different political views enjoy a good romantic relationship?
My Answer, In Brief: A person’s politics does not constitute the fundamental values important for a good romance, but often conversations about politics can reveal those values.
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Tags: Epistemology, Philosophy, Politics, Relationships, Romance, Values
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Rapid Fire Questions (49:43)
In this segment, I answered questions impromptu. The questions were:
- Who’s your favorite psychopath?
- Why do people still want to be moral when their morality is not in their own interest? Doesn’t morality for its own sake turn the concept itself into a hyped up cardboard badge?
- Is there a philosophical difference between losing and regaining consciousnesses and being taken apart and reconstructed by some scifi teleporter if one existed?
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Conclusion (1:00:40)
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