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Infidelity, Children, Abortion, PhDs, and More

Webcast Q&A: 23 January 2011

I answered questions on honesty about infidelity, pursuing someone already attached, children as an optional value, the morality of abortion, the value of a PhD, discrimination and rights, and more for Philosophy in Action Radio on 23 January 2011. Greg Perkins of Objectivist Answers was my co-host. Listen to or download the podcast below.

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Segments: 23 January 2011


Question 1: Honesty about Infidelity (4:21)

Question: If a woman, for example, has cheated on her husband, should she always tell him afterward? So if a woman cheats on her husband, then regrets doing so, and decides to re-commit herself to the marriage. Should she tell her husband about that infidelity? What if the cheating was a short fling rather than a serious affair? What if the revelation would seriously damage or even destroy the marriage?

Answer, In Brief: Whatever the consequences for the marriage, for the cheater to fail to tell the spouse is a major fraud.

Tags: Honesty, Infidelity, Marriage, Relationships, Romance

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Question 2: Pursuing Someone Already Attached (17:50)

Question: Is it moral and/or wise to pursue someone else's "significant other"? In particular: (1) Is it immoral to try to pursue or court another person's committed romantic partner? (2) Would a rational woman want to be with a man, for example, who abandoned an existing relationship to be with with her? Also: (3) And if pursuing an already-attached person can be moral, do you have any advice about succeeding?

Answer, In Brief: Unless a person is married, he/she is still properly considered on the market, to some extent. But... beware the cheater.

Tags: Dating, Ethics, Relationships, Romance

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Question 3: Children as an Optional Value (25:57)

Question: Why are children only an 'optional value'? What does it mean to say that children are an "optional" value? Does that mean that every person should regard them as optional in his/her life – or something else? Also, given that life is the standard of value and the none of us would exist without reproduction, don't we have a moral obligation to bear and raise the next generation?

Answer, In Brief: Children are a fantastic value to many people, but not necessary for a flourishing life.

Tags: Children, Ethics, Parenting, Personal Values

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Question 4: The Morality of Abortion (37:55)

Question: When is abortion morally right or wrong? Is abortion only proper in "extreme" cases like risk to life or health of the mother, rape or incest, or serious fetal deformity? Is terminating a healthy but unwanted pregnancy morally wrong? Is it an evasion of responsibility for the known consequences of one's actions?

Answer, In Brief: A choice as important as whether to raise a child should not be determined by the biological accident of conception.

Tags: Abortion, Children, Ethics, Parenting, Pregnancy

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Question 5: The Value of a PhD (48:33)

Question: Given your comments in a prior webcast about the pointlessness of much of modern college education, why did you get a PhD in philosophy? More generally, do you think that a Ph.D can be of value?

Answer, In Brief: The value of a Ph.D depends on a person's particular circumstances... but do think twice before doing that!

Tags: Academia, Education

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Question 6: Discrimination and Rights (53:39)

Question: In the essay "Racism" in The Virtue of Selfishness, Ayn Rand mentions that public institutions and government agencies should not discriminate against or on behalf of individuals. In her talk of private property, however, she says that government should not attempt to prevent private racism in private establishments and that a man's rights are not violated by a private individual's refusal to deal with him. My question is: How are his rights not violated if the owner discriminates against him?

Answer, In Brief: A person's rights are not violated because someone else doesn't want anything to do with him – even if his reasons are vicious.

Tags: Business, Discrimination, Gender, Justice, Law, Property, Race

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