Explaining a Break-Up
Radio Q&A: 11 November 2012, Question 2
I answered a question on explaining a break-up on 11 November 2012. You can listen to or download the podcast of just this question below – or check out the whole episode of Philosophy in Action Radio.
Do I owe my boyfriend an explanation for my breaking up with him? I dated my recently-ex-boyfriend for a few months. Over the past few weeks, I realized that some personality and value differences preclude any long-term prospects. When I broke up with him, I didn't give him any reasons why, and that really upset him. Do I owe him an explanation? Would that help or hurt our chances of a cordial relationship in the future? If I should talk to him about my reasons, what should I say?
My Answer, In Brief: If your former boyfriend is a decent person, then it's wrong not to honor his request for an explanation for the break-up: given your past intimacy, it's cruel to leave him in the dark.
- Duration: 9:53
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